The more we try to hold on to things the more they start drifting away. This, especially holds good for relationships. If we like someone and want to be close to that person, we should not break the natural flow of relationship development. Rushing into things and trying to make things happen quickly will only make the other feel awkward and will gradually make the person to move away. Its better to go slow and steady rather than rushing into things.
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Jeff said: that's a really good point. and sometimes when you rish into things, it's really the high-voltage about it (AKA the honeymoon period) that makes you want to rush into it, not necessarily the realness of the relationship. |
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starlight said: i like this tip... sometimes i feel that if someone starts drifting away from me, it's because i am not good enough, pretty enough, smart enough (pick one). i'm working towards being better at its not about me, and that its better to let the relationship ride is organic process than try and force my hand at something... |
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yiting said: In chinese saying it's like go w/ the flow... It's good not to rush into things and it's also good to know when to let it go. In between one ought to work very hard on it, in a not 'rushed' way :) |
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Jeff said: that's a good point yiting... sometimes its hard to know when that "good place" is to let it go. |
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